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We answer the questions you're afraid to ask, about sex, love, relationships, and family.
Family Affairs is a curious, inclusive, and non-judgmental group discussion that aims to enlighten, educate, and heal.
Sex is an important part of relationships – maybe the most important, depending on who you ask. It’s also the most common point of contention in relationship therapy. While it’s totally normal for libido to ebb and flow as we age and cope with a number of stress variables, it’s also totally normal to feel frustrated with…Listen to the full episode
Tis the season for gridlock, office parties, impossible expectations, overeating, depleted savings, and self-righteous relatives who have no business discussing politics. The good news is, you’re going to listen to this show and it’s going to make you laugh about this stressful time of year, while arming you with invaluable tactics for coping with stress…Listen to the full episode
No hookups! If you have any experience at all, online dating, you’ve come across this phrase. Maybe you’re someone who gets regularly propositioned for no-strings-attached (NSA) sex and you need to weed those people out. Maybe you’re middle-aged, coming off a long-term-relationship and it’s been so long since you dated, you didn’t realize “hookups” are…Listen to the full episode
EMDR stands for Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing. It’s a specific form of psychological therapy that aims to rewire your brain’s processing of traumatic events. EMDR has become increasingly popular in recent years and has gained acceptance throughout the Psychology and Counseling worlds. Having originated as a treatment for soldiers suffering from Post Traumatic Stress Disorder…Listen to the full episode
Save Your Sex Life! Eeeek! My partner wants to do gross things in bed! What if it hurts. What if I don’t like it? What if I DO LIKE IT?! What if they leave me for someone else if I don’t try the thing? First of all, get ahold of yourself. You’re an adult. You’re being…Listen to the full episode
Shame and Humiliation We’ve talked about shame and humiliation before – you know, the fun kind? This is a show about the other kind of sexual shame: the kind that leads to people doing the other fun, weird stuff we’ve discussed in the past. This is about real shame – emotional baggage shame. You don’t have…Listen to the full episode
Let’s talk about [anal] sex! See what I did there? I made it seem like I was embarrassed to say “anal” because I actually am. It’s one thing to talk about sex ALL THE DAMN TIME, but as soon as butts come into the equation, people get squeamish. So, let’s get it out of the…Listen to the full episode
How do you deal with cheating? A letter from a listener sparked this conversation (which turned into a whole show) about infidelity. Cheating is the oldest and most challenging story in the sex and relationship book. Anyone who has experienced it first hand – or been witness to infidelity in others’ relationships – knows just how…Listen to the full episode
What is Ageplay Ageplay (sometimes “Age Play” or “Age-play”) generally refers to sexual role play where someone pretends they’re a different age, but it’s important to note, it’s not always sexual. “Who’s your daddy” is probably the most common introduction to age play. Even if it’s not your go-to for sexy talk, I’m going to…Listen to the full episode
Sex is an important part of relationships – maybe the most important, depending on who you ask. It’s also the most common point of contention in relationship therapy. While it’s totally normal for libido to ebb and flow as we age and cope with a number of stress variables, it’s also totally normal to feel frustrated with…
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Meet The Team
As an expert Clinical Sex Therapist, I have the ability to address relationship and marriage problems without bias and provide innovative solutions to couples with difficult relationship and intimacy issues. I specialize in working with couples on the brink of divorce or separation and crafting unique solutions to their emotional and physical relationship.
Come see me if you're in the Denver Metro Area, or book a video call from anywhere in the world.
I'm not a licensed therapist. I'm a licensed architect. What good is that? Not much, if you need a licensed therapist. It's actually worth a lot, though, if you need a life coach uniquely versed in multifaceted problem-solving and personal experience.
I've personally worked through divorce, single-parenting, online relationships, non-monogamy, and online dating.
I've been told I'm a great listener, and I happen to love hearing from people like you, whether it's to get help with a problem, or even if you just need a sympathetic ear. Book an phone or video call, now.